How to Get Back Your Ex Boyfriend

A breakup of any relationship is painful, be it between the married couples, parents and children, extended family members or two friends whether they are both males, both females or a man and his girlfriend.

A marriage may carry on even with a difficult relationship because of the marriage bond between the two (unless they finally go for a divorce) but a relationship between a girl and her boyfriend is fragile with no strings attached and so can break up without a notice and comes as a blow to the ones separated. More than the boy, it is the girl who is emotionally and psychologically affected.

A girl may want to have the relationship restored between her ex-boyfriend and her. From this, it is obvious, that the reason for the breakup was most likely due to a fit of anger or some misunderstanding between the two. If the matter was really serious like unfaithfulness and regular ill-treatment from the boy’s side, unsolvable differences causing boredom in their relationship, the girl will never ever think of getting him back.

For the girl to get her ex-boyfriend back, she must think over the situation with a balanced mind as to why the breakup occurred and whether the restoration of their relationship will be the right move; she must make a firm decision and stick to it if she is sure to have him back knowing that she can do it with determination and some tactfulness. It is not a hopeless situation.

Here are some ways to Get back your Ex Boyfriend

• The girl must ensure that she is well dressed and composed whenever she goes to meet her ex- boyfriend. She must not show her sorrow to him through shabby dressing. First and foremost, she must realize that her ex-boyfriend is less likely to be attracted towards her if she shows herself to be miserable without him and wants him back. She must not display this emotion before him. The girl may desperately want to talk to him to discuss matters with him but it is wiser not to harass him by repeated phone calls because that will put him off all the more.
• She can meet him in person in whichever way possible, through a common friend or during college breaks, and must confess that the decision for the breakup was a wrong one and that she wants to get him back. This may come as a shock to him at first but she must give him time to consider the new development. At the first meeting since breakup, she must be very careful about the words and how she puts them across to him. A wrong attitude can be repulsive and the breakup will not be restored. It is a good idea to meet him in a place where the two previously used to meet.
• She must repair her ways and attitudes towards him and become the girl he fell in love at the very beginning of their relationship. Maintain a positive approach and a lively personality. She may get a surprise to realize how much he, too, wants their relationship restored but did not know how to go about it. She must keep her ears and eyes open to what he has to say and his body language. If he is not warm and friendly, that shows that he in not interested in her and that she will need extra efforts and ideas to bring him back to her.
• The girl can invite him to a game or an event just to increase the frequency of meeting him; she must try to make that meeting an exciting one. She must make it obvious to him that she misses him too much and is unable to keep him out of her mind. This is an indication to him how much he is desired by the girl. She must ask forgiveness for all that happened which led to the breakup of their relationship. She must also show interest in his feelings and whether he, too, wants their relationship restored. If he has any suggestions of change to keep their relationship restored and going strong, they must be noted and kept in mind.

Remember, these are just few tips to get your ex back. They may give you positive results or they may not. If you are lucky enough, you will get your ex back. But if these measures do not deliver the desired result, don't get disheartened. It's not the end of the world and understand that he is not worth for your love. Get rid of him from you mind and move on.