Confusion about his feelings for me.....

11 years ago

Ohky....I know this guy about 3years now and i liked him sinse the 1st day , the problem is when i told him i love him he said it back but he said "i love u 2 buddy"....which means he loves me as a friends . He has this way of making me feel special , im really shy to meet him and ive met him about 5 times but for a short time everyday. He doesnt date.....and im afraid if i tell him how i feel it'll riun our friendship. At days it'll feeel like he feels the same but the next day everythng is messed up and we hardly talk !! The thing is he makes my feelings chance.....if he's nice to me im all happy and in love and when we dont talk ill say im over him.....then we start talking again and im in love again....its feels like a rollercoaster....i need advice what to do......

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  • 11 years ago

    Looks like we're on the same coaster, girl... but I'm not really sure about the last tid-bit in the end about when you two talk, you feel like you're in love with him again. Personally, I don't think it's a good excuse just because you don't talk, you're over him. You have to train yourself not to give in because you two don't talk. Have you ever tried playing the Question game? My friend tells me to try that with my crush but I'm too shy too. Since you and this guy are pretty close friends, I think it's a benefit that you can play that game without being awkward, unless you trigger something.

  • 11 years ago

    well mine is different!!! i had a crush on him for 6 good years i gather courage an told him about my feelings and he said he feels the same way so we start getting to know each other better then school starts the next year then during the summer break it waz like noting happen and we are back to the friend zone i wanna be more than a friend how do i tell him we are all grown up it is faustrating me i get shy around him so i try to bring him down by dressing good but it is not working then 2 weeks later i found out he waz actually dating my friend before i told him i liked him it turns out they broke up and he is seeing someone else but he is always looking at me even around his present girl friend then two days later he tries to kiss me but i relented but i wanted to kiss him badly but i dont wanna down grade my self but i love this guy wat should i do its killing me

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