NOT CARING FOR ME!!!

12 years ago

I GOY MY FIRST LOVE WITH MY LOVER PUNEETH IN MY SCHOOL DAYS. WHEN I PROPOSED HIM HE REJECTED ME SAYING HE WAS ALREADY INTERESTED IN SOME GIRL. AFTER TWO YEARS I APPROACHED HIM THROUGH FACEBOOK. HE THEN ACCEPTED ME SAYING I WAS IN HIS HEART IN HIS SCHOOL DAYS ONWARDS. HE CHATTED WITH ME SO SWEETLY IN FB. BUT HE NEVER COMES FOR ME TO FB. HE CAME ONLY A FEW TIMES...THAT TO LEFT ME WHILE I WAS CHATTING WITH HIM.WE BOTH ARE TEENS & ALSO DON'T HAVE ANY DIRECT CONTACTS. I DON'T KNOW WHETHER TO CONTINUE MY RELATIONSHIP OR NOT. PLEASE HELP ME.

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  • Pav
    12 years ago

    Hey,Madhuri

    Love needs lots of patience. It might take few months or a year before you guys get time for each other.One question you must ask yourself weather do you see a future with him?or will u love and leave him if ur parents do not accept him, or approve your love. Because it can turn into complete heart ache.

    Madhuri, could you plz be careful. My advice is dont continue in FB n get upset each time u dont chat. If he loves you ,he will find a way to get in touch with you directly. Love should not be one sided, he must make some effort too. so,
    1) you proposed,he said u were in his heart but i believe u were in his mind,not heart).
    2)Why is it always you should keep effort in finding him , talking to him etc? He will take u for granted n he might play with ur feelings.
    3)If a boy knows his girl loves him more than he does, then he will actually take it easy, n thinks he can do what ever he wants,still the girl will love him.
    4) Madhuri, you guys are in teen, so try not

  • Pav
    12 years ago

    conti...
    conti......
    4) Madhuri, you guys are in teen, so try not to get too serious. and give him a chance to chase you, miss you and find u. otherwise he will never understand the importance of U(importance of MADHURI in his life!).

    Leave him alone, you enjoy ur life find someone who loves you/respects you.

    Takecare,
    Pav

  • 12 years ago

    The case is very clear Madhuri...with all due respect to ur feeling for him, i strongly feel that he is playing with you and your feelings.Its pretty clear that he just wants someone to flirt on with when he's online. You better find out if you are his need or just a want. There's a lot of difference in both the terms. If he needs you...he'll definitely come for u, else...he just see u as his time pass.
    There's only one way to find out: send him a msg in fb asking him if he's serious on this and see hw he responds too...or maybe stay away from his fb profile for a while and give time and space to him so that he misses u (like pav said).
    PS: Don't run behind guys, cos they easily take you for granted and then the relationship becomes tuff,,, but make him run behind u...(that way things'll be easier) :P

    Madhuri, seems like u have a very beautiful heart, cos u love him still after so many years, i think u deserve some1 better...(in case this doesnt work out, and if ur feeling hurt).

  • Pav
    12 years ago

    Hi, Angel ( I got ur name right ! this time :) )

    How you been? Long time no see yeah? wts happening... :)

    Cheers
    Pav

  • 12 years ago

    hey Pav (yes...u r ryt this time and i hope u will be ryt wid my name 4eva...)
    :D :)
    I am doing good, yes had to take a break cos of my exams and stuff!!!Now m freeee... :D
    Wat are u upto?

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