I WANT TO ASK FOR YOUR ADVICE, I AM A HR ASSOCIATE OF LBCEXPRESS, I HAVE A PERMANENT JOB, MY BOYFRIEND ALWAYS ASK ME MONEY WHEN MY SALARY COMES,,I ALWAYS GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANT BUT NOW I REALIZE THAT HE ONLY USE ME FOR MONEY BUT HE ALWAYS SAID TO ME THAT HE LOVE ME..WHAT CAN I DO,,I DONT TRUST HIM ANYMORE ABOUT LOVING ME
10 years ago
Hello Henelyn... firstly I would advice you, not to share your job profile in this public network. privacy matters right? :)
How many months you have been feeding him your hard-worked money? Does he have a Job? It looks like he is very dependent on you. How long you want to sacrifice your salary? ------ ofcourse, if he is trying for job..then plz give him time.
If you trust his love for you, let him find a job for himself... But if you think you are just an ATM for him, then Yes your relationship is not on right track. Don't waste your time and money on someone who doesn't respect your hard work, its bad if he loves you MONEY but not you. (he must have lost track of his love !) ...... try giving him only half of the amount he asks you, see the reaction you get.....later try to give even lesser amt....if he gets the point, then he is mature enough...if he does not get the poin and fights with you....then i really wonder he would put a roof on your head and feed your kinds in futu