How can i get my boyfriend to be the kind, caring, loving and attentitive man he used to be after he's now mostly taken up with his work, friends and everything else and does'nt listen to me anymore? He use to be everything a woman can ask for and would want in her man but of recently he just does everything his way and disregards my feeling or what i say and hardly finds any time for me. is this supposed to be telling me something?
12 years ago
well from the way I would see things between your relationship with each other? is that girl if you are giving him too much loving and too much attention...then to a man like him that would scare the hell out of him and see you affections and care for him as been overly possesive...slow down girl and give him space and time to breath thru your relatioship coz man will do well to keep up when we woman are not to pushy, needy and especially overly insecure about everything that drives them crazy up the wall with the dramatic behaviour we girls like to sometimes create around them..love does funny things to the heart...lol! try to enjoy you relationship but letting him be himself..give him that space and freedom to find his existence and meaning in your relationship with eachother and with people you both care deeply about coz only this will built your trust and faith to believe that things will workout one way or the other..."if you cant be them, then join them, dont try to change t
12 years ago
P.S: ooops.."if you cant beat them then join them....".