love .....hurting me.....i'm in depretion...

12 years ago

i love a girl but she said that we can be just friends................now i'm in a huge deppression.
want to get her in any condition.....i cant eat as she comes i my thts.....as well cant sleep.....
havent taken a sleeep sine 2 months......please help...

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  • 12 years ago

    U should try to make friends with her first then once u two know eachother well enough go to the movies and make your move!!
    GL Carolyn

  • 12 years ago

    Ya i too agree with carolyn, First make her comfort as a friend and u prove her that no one cares and love her more than u... After that if u try to leave her also,she wont because starting i too told my guy same thing, now he is ready to leave me but i cant leave his love....

  • 12 years ago

    I think you should let her get to know you as a person. Become her best friend. And let her know after awhile that your heart is hers. And if it doesn't work out there's other fish in the sea.

  • 12 years ago

    dear i am his best friend since 3 year.and before this we were good friends.
    so we have a 6 year friendship relationship.....
    since i have proposed her she told me not to meet her.....
    and she finally said me that we will never become one soul.....
    but we are still friends.....he is not ready to be with me....

  • 12 years ago

    ya i too try to do the same as you said.....
    even for a single glimpse of her i broke my hostel rule and jump from fences....
    then jumped his collage fences.....as she was going to dance in her collage function.....but she refuse to look at me a single time.....
    now after 10 days he called me.....but i didn't pick up phone because of two reason...
    1.) i was shivering badly and was not in condition to pick up the phone
    2.) one of my friend told me not to pick up phone.....he said if she cares for me she will come to you and meet you.....
    but 2ed not working....
    now say dear what should i do..... :'(

  • 12 years ago

    dear i m his best friend.....we share each and every thing of our life (befor 2.5 months).
    i also tried to forget her,,but every time i try to forget her after 5 Minuit
    i slap my self....
    i do this every time i think about the shit to forget her.....
    1.)and now i am very clear that i can't live without her.....now these days even don't sea the sexiest girls of my collage....
    and if i try to do this i see her face in them....her smile in them.....her body gesture in them.....
    so i cant even think of another girl.....
    she if my life so i have only 2 option to get her or leave myself......

  • 12 years ago

    guys.. i have lost 11 kg weight in past 2 months
    a big dark circles ..a lot of tension is in my mind.....now these days i forget every thing(excluding his memories)
    i never used to wake up before 8 AM...but now i wake up every morning 4 AM(actually i cant sleep whole nights because of hes thoughts and when i come to sleep she comes in dreams and i woke up .....every day.)
    i was the happiest and charming person of my group....
    but now i am a boaring guy......missing myself...and my life(that girl).
    now please help me.....this emptiness is byting me each second..... :'( :'(

  • 12 years ago

    I have had a painful breakup recantly. We were best freinds for two years then out of the blue we started dating. I loved him so much.we dated for three years. And then I found out he was cheating on me. It felt like I lost everything that day. But weeks past and many sleepless nights aswell.then when I was completely lost I realized somthing. I realized that I am strong and that I'm not going to waste my life moping about wut happened. Be strong and if you get the chance to get back that person then take it.if that's wut your heat tells you

  • 12 years ago

    tomorrow she messaged me to be friends again....
    and clearly said to be just friends.....
    she said we will never be patners.....
    now again i slept only half an hour.....
    how to convey her.... :'( :'(

  • 12 years ago

    Ashu, y ru waiting still?? First start ur friendship and prove ur love... Go and tell ur girl that u will be her friend first, if ur close to her only u can prove ur love pa.. Now just ur wasting ur valuable time... If she tells that u people cant be patners, u have to make her think that, she is wrong... Please stop thinking and start ur day as a friend now and finally reach ur goal as her patner...First remove all ur negative thoughts, nothing is impossible.. We are with u and we will pray for her to change...

    All the Best Friend!!

  • 12 years ago

    priya.....yaar how to start.....jab mai use phon kerne ke liye cell uthata hu to i starting shivering...and suddenly my throat become chocked.....
    and i become totally blank.....aur fir se mere muh se yahi nikalta hai ki yaar "khu*****" ab to muje except ker le.....and start crying.....
    aur wo kahti hai ki ashu yaar meri wajah se pareshan hona band ker de.....and said i call u back but she didn't .....
    and again i'm back to my stage.....

  • 12 years ago

    Ashu... Start means, i didnt ask u to call her for a movie all... First of all leave ur shivering because she is ur angel and not devil...Just start with a good morning mgs and end up with good night mgs, forward her good mails,mgses... U just reminding her that ur still there,if now she is not responding to mgses, definitely she will reply one day but u have to wait with patience... Stop crying, be bold enough..Most of the girls like bold guy with soft heart, u have both i believe...

    Pls mail to my id [email protected]

  • 12 years ago

    Ashu, people wont understand true love very fast, u dont knw now also i am crying for my love who is sitting next to me and he never cares for me.... He wanted me to go away from him...Atleast ur girl is telling to be friends first but my love is telling me to be friend now... Then how should be my stuation... i cant see him as my friend,how can i make him understand this...

  • 12 years ago

    @priya did you get my email??which sent you today afternoon.

  • 12 years ago

    Received it.. Sent u and reply also...Take Care, nothing will happen, let us hope for the best

" Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. "

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