Getting her back

I broke up with my gf before the start of the summer. This was because of really bad problems in my family at the time that really affected me though I didn’t really know how much they affected me until I was finally able to get over them. They made me depressed and made me make a stupid decision and break up with her. We are still friends and she knows that I like her though she says she only see’s me as a friend. She says she’s afraid of getting her heart broke again. Part of me still feels there is something there. She got me a Christmas present and when we meet she has problems with looking me in the eyes because when she does her eyes dilate. I feel I can win her back but only if she gives me a chance.