Who is it?

Me an Stanley has been dating for 1 month so far and a couple days i really love him but its hard to tell him i need time to myself , but its hard for him to realize it i guess, he says he love me but i ask to myself, "Do he really love me or just in it for sex/my body? See the thing is im a virgin and i want to trust him but its another guy at my school and he makes me feel happy and buys me everything . for example; i would say i want a big ass teddy bear and next thing you know he goes all out with his money and buy me that very big special teddy bear, who should i love and date??? Remember i want to date a guy that make feel like a queen and very happy in our relationship. So who should i choose?