Does He Really Love Me?

13 years ago

There's a guy that i have liked for 4 years. I finally told him that i liked him and he said he liked me too. Then we promised to be partners at the Hmong new year. but i got there and saw him with two other girls. And when i found him he said that he was going home. Then He went around and started to pov pob (throw a ball traditionally) with the other two girls that he was with earlier. I was staring straight at him but he kept acting like he don't see me. So then i went home and on Saturday i went again and i saw him flirting with other girls. He waved at me but stayed where he was. So then when i was going home he hugged me. Then my cousin told me that he told her that he was only using me for the new year but his girlfriend for everything else. He apologizes to me but... should i trust him?

  • 13 years ago

    Ijai if you think he's worth it then go for it. Get what you want so you're happy. If you know it's going to happen again, then tell him straight about the tears you shed. ask him if they ment anything to him.

  • 13 years ago

    ijai from my heart well take my advise...Do you truly like him? and if you do does he feel the same and does he act like he feels the same? and all what i just read it seems like he mite be using you and true love will show its colors and if it dnt then..you just need to forget about him...its been 4 years does even understand h0w long you loved him if not then she is using you and you cant trust him....but if he understands you and says i am truly srry from the bottom of my hurt thn he truly loves you but if not then he is just using you for the fun of it...and how does he reacte to you when he sees pretty girls around you? understand guys can be cheaters liars and more just look in his eyes and see his true colors

  • 13 years ago

    aldersimthy:
    you are correct too ijai i love you as a cousin and like a sister you know that all i want is the best for you and i dnt want you falling for a wrong person look into his eyes and you can see what they reallie feel about you...I LOVE YOU IJAI!(:

  • 13 years ago

    Ijai if you think he's worth it then go for it. Get what you want so you're happy. If you know it's going to happen again, then tell him straight about the tears you shed. ask him if they ment anything to him.

    Yes... that is true... i will... thank you... and just curious... is this Kan Aldersmtih?

  • 13 years ago

    Ijai if you think he's worth it then go for it. Get what you want so you're happy. If you know it's going to happen again, then tell him straight about the tears you shed. ask him if they ment anything to him.

    Yes... that is true... i will... thank you... and just curious... is this Kan Aldersmtih?

    Haha i never thought you would guess right.. but hi Ijai :) Yes, i'm Kan.

  • Ijai if you think he's worth it then go for it. Get what you want so you're happy. If you know it's going to happen again, then tell him straight about the tears you shed. ask him if they ment anything to him.

    Yes... that is true... i will... thank you... and just curious... is this Kan Aldersmtih?

    ikr is this kan aldersmith.....Just wondering becuz if it is you how did you get this website????o.O

  • 13 years ago

    Yes... that is true... i will... thank you... and just curious... is this Kan Aldersmtih?

    ikr is this kan aldersmith.....Just wondering becuz if it is you how did you get this website????o.O

    Haha well my sister got me into it i guess. it's just helps me get things off my mind and look at sad stuff :D But Ijai if you love him then you have to tell him that you love him and if he don't stop what he's doing to you then tell him that you thought he was better than he was and he'll feel guilty :D

  • 13 years ago

    ikr is this kan aldersmith.....Just wondering becuz if it is you how did you get this website????o.O

    Haha well my sister got me into it i guess. it's just helps me get things off my mind and look at sad stuff :D But Ijai if you love him then you have to tell him that you love him and if he don't stop what he's doing to you then tell him that you thought he was better than he was and he'll feel guilty :D

    Yeah that is true Kan.. wow you know alot of love stuff LOL more than me... thanks Kan... i think you're a really good guy :)

  • 13 years ago

    Haha well my sister got me into it i guess. it's just helps me get things off my mind and look at sad stuff :D But Ijai if you love him then you have to tell him that you love him and if he don't stop what he's doing to you then tell him that you thought he was better than he was and he'll feel guilty :D

    Yeah that is true Kan.. wow you know alot of love stuff LOL more than me... thanks Kan... i think you're a really good guy :)

    I'm there for you Ijai :D thanks... i'm not just a good guy... i'm a HERO!!! And i look

  • Yes... that is true... i will... thank you... and just curious... is this Kan Aldersmtih?

    ikr is this kan aldersmith.....Just wondering becuz if it is you how did you get this website????o.O

    yes and kan is correct ijai and you know that there are more guys out there and you just need to open your eyes more and that guy he is just 1 guy there are so many more ijai you will find an asweome and a true loving guy that will take care of you and will be just they way you want him and if the guy you like well from my view he is showing his true colors of a mean unloving person becuz if he didnt show his colors you will be fooled and he fooled you ijai...just that now you seen his true colors

    Haha well my sister got me into it i

  • 13 years ago

    does he really loves me?

  • 13 years ago

    Darling - there is ony one word worth mentioning here - NEXT!
    No you must not tolerate this behaviour, you are beautiful and special and deserve someone who really cares and is committed to you so NEXT - Make space in your heart for someone that deseves your love.

  • Darling - there is ony one word worth mentioning here - NEXT!
    No you must not tolerate this behaviour, you are beautiful and special and deserve someone who really cares and is committed to you so NEXT - Make space in your heart for someone that deseves your love.

    yes BONNY! u got that right there are so many guys in the world just move on...dnt waste your time on sadness and him.... there are so many guys that are looking for the right girl just wait and you will see (:

  • 13 years ago

    Darling - there is ony one word worth mentioning here - NEXT!
    No you must not tolerate this behaviour, you are beautiful and special and deserve someone who really cares and is committed to you so NEXT - Make space in your heart for someone that deseves your love.

    yes BONNY! u got that right there are so many guys in the world just move on...dnt waste your time on sadness and him.... there are so many guys that are looking for the right girl just wait and you will see (:

    Danielle there's no moving on... the more i move on the more it hurts... i'll just watch from affar... no need to be close to him...i know there are many guys in the world... but... when i love someone... i love them... :( sorry... i REALLY can't move on... no matter what other people say... i'll just stay the same...

  • yes BONNY! u got that right there are so many guys in the world just move on...dnt waste your time on sadness and him.... there are so many guys that are looking for the right girl just wait and you will see (:

    Danielle there's no moving on... the more i move on the more it hurts... i'll just watch from affar... no need to be close to him...i know there are many guys in the world... but... when i love someone... i love them... :( sorry... i REALLY can't move on... no matter what other people say... i'll just stay the same...

    ijai that is how you will never find true love i see people around me heartbroken and later on in life they found the right person and they come back and t