hello friemds need help frm all of u

11 years ago

hi frnds,
pls help me out.... iam facing a big problem....
iam loving a girl from past 7 months, we have spent lots of time to gather.. we used to take care of each other very well just like we are born for each other... she Introduced me to all of her friend even boys and girls and we also desided to get married in few months.... but...

one of her best friend got to know'n about our love story... and he asked her "have u fallen in love with sum one, i have seen u with a person" then she said YES, but now the person who is best friend of my lover, started saying her that he loves her... and he can not leave with out her, they where friends from past 2 years... she use to even tell me about him and her other friends.. but now the guy is forcing her to love him if not he will die, i have told my girl that just ignor him & avoid him.... but she is having a concern about him, if she behave's like dat... then what he is going to do....?

iam not able to understand wat i need to do..... pls suggest me friends.........

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  • 11 years ago

    possibily, u try to meet him personally and try to make him understand abt u and ur girls relationship...!!!

  • 11 years ago

    possibily, u try to meet him personally and try to make him understand abt u and ur girls relationship...!!!

    i tried to call him and spoken with him regarding our relationship, but the person was pointing out her dat " did u went out with him and etc... she got angry on me why u have spokin with him and now she is not allowing me to do that again... and he is going distubing us.... what i need to do my frmdz....... getting mad

  • 11 years ago

    Sounds like you are trying to get to the root of the issue. Good for you for trying to talk with him. If he truely loved your woman he would never threaten her with killing himself. That is a coward move. Your girl might be trying to protect her friend and get mad at you but you are in your relationship and have a right to know what is going on.
    I would take some time and not move too quickly about marriage. She sounds torn.

  • 11 years ago

    It would be better to him to consult a psychologist. Give him a counseling. They have a good relationship friendship. Don't try to cut it. And see this problem in her side.

  • 11 years ago

    getting mad day by day friends.... iam not understanding wat i need to do....
    she is taking care of him & concern on him, more than me... and i doesnt understand what is going to happen....
    pls suggest me a solution by which i can end this problem....

  • 11 years ago

    bro y dont u explain ur gf hw much u loves her & u just take evn her 2 meet dat boy so u explain him wat z friendship & wat z love i mean wat z d different k so u tell him true loves never come by 4sin k bro den he might unsatnd evn f he comes 2 5t u b calm k coz i tnk he z amd f ur gf wat ur gf doin z correct coz c loves her friends z n it u just b n her place & tnk bro don't wry u trust ur gf so no worries k

  • 11 years ago

    i have tried it..... but she is not ready to do it....

    she simply says, i cant bring u both at 1 place and talk about me....
    not able to understand what she is thinking, what is going to happen....

  • 11 years ago

    I understand what she means but I also understand you. As her boyfriend, your job is to protect her but she probably doesn't want her friend and boyfriend to fight or to have all this get out of hand. But her friend is manipulating her in to feeling bad for him. And don't believe that she doesn't care for you anymore because she does. She just doesn't want to see her friend get hurt. So just remind her of your feelings for her on a daily basis, she won't leave u she obviously has lots of feelings and care for you :)

  • 11 years ago

    hay thanks dude.....
    i will do it defntly

  • 11 years ago

    friends.....
    iam not able to undrstnd wat to do... she is ignoring mee.... frm past 2 days.... if i start ask for bit louder, shes is saying that, i dont need any 1 just leave me alone... what i need to do....

  • 11 years ago

    friends.....
    iam not able to undrstnd wat to do... she is ignoring mee.... frm past 2 days.... if i start ask for bit louder, shes is saying that, i dont need any 1 just leave me alone... what i need to do....[ te]
    I get how she feels. I've felt like that before and maybe it's easier right now for her to push you but she needs to get that you love her and care for her and want to help her. It's not best for her to pull from you right now because she needs you.

  • 11 years ago

    hi frnds....

    even after doing every thng..... she is just saying dat.... every 1 leave me alone... i dont need any body......

    wat i need to do guys......?

  • 11 years ago

    Hi Pradeep when you are clear from your side, then its a good idea to say her your views and allow her to take a decision. After spending time with you now she is analysing both. Reallity is love cannot be shared to anyone as a partner. She never been comitted to you then dont expect now also. No one will die for others sake this all emotional blackmail. Never give more importance to anyone when you are only option for them. All the best. I do not know about your age to suggest more.

  • 11 years ago

    getting mad day by day friends.... iam not understanding wat i need to do....
    she is taking care of him & concern on him, more than me... and i doesnt understand what is going to happen....
    pls suggest me a solution by which i can end this problem....

    This is not a just care dual mind.Shows no commitment. Suppose she is considering your opinion and feelings on this matter then fine. otherwise better its your time to take a decision. Being a mad you cannot achieve anything . Just keep cool and take decision. do not take any emotional decision.. All the best

  • 11 years ago

    thnx bro....

    i have expressed my feeling many times.... and even she knows dat how much i care abt her... even now a days if she meets mee she will be very happy and she say "i even forget the time if i bee with u" but after reching home or if she speaks with that guy her mind will be totally changed, she dont even listen my words.... i even asked her that wats ur decision but she simply say just be as a frnd for few day evry thng will be settled.. but iam not able to do soo... if not she say that i dont need any 1.. just leave me alone....

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