i dated this guy 2 yrs back (he was dating someone else too and i knew it but i loved him so stayed there) and then we broke up, i dumped him. there were loads of misunderstandings.i still love him and he knows it but nothing is moving ahead.he said he won't date me so i moved away from him. but then he came back and said it din't make sense to him. we started talking almost evryday, it's been more than a month now but till now he hasn't asked me out. he often asks me if i'm dating anyone and questions of that sort. but cannot understand him any more. i can't understand it all. need to know what to do.does really love me or am i his stand by o does he just want me as his friend?
8 years ago
Well by what I am reading, if he was dating someone while dating you, he probably wasn't interested. Even if you guys are talking again, there is a very slim chance that he likes you again. You have a strange problem on your hands. You want him, he's not sure if he wants you. If you go back out with him, there is a possiblity you can be heart broken again. I wouldn't take the chance. But you can take it and see if things work out.
8 years ago
I was reading, trying to find help for myself, I found this.
Donâ€™t let pride come in the way of getting you both back together. If your other half doesnâ€™t take the step to apologize, you take the initiative. Communication is a must. A relationship without communication is bland and lifeless. The very reason of you and your date coming together is because you enjoy each otherâ€™s company. Besides, the reason you will fight is because you want to connect the two different personalities.
Thismay help a bit.